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Harriet Caroline (Rudnick) Bergstrand

February 22, 1926 ~ September 17, 2015 (age 89) 89 Years Old
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Message from Lesli Stovall Layer
October 21, 2015 1:57 PM

On behalf of myself, and my father Bill Stovall, I wish to express our sincerest condolences on the passing of Harriet. Harriet was an instrumental part of my Dad's (and Larry Durbin's) real estate company in the 70's. My dad lives in Colorado and he would have attended the service if not for an elective surgery planned this week for Phyllis his wife. He always spoke very fondly of Harriet and often asked those still in touch with her how she was doing. She will be remembered with much love and fondness. Lesli Stovall Layer
Message from Anne Prejna
October 19, 2015 1:59 PM

I also worked with Harriet in real estate for about 10 years. She was an example of a truly good manager and friend. We enjoyed some travel trips and years of fun together. She will be remembered by many.
Message from Laurie Mihevc
October 12, 2015 10:05 AM

Although I did not know Harriet for a long time, I feel so blessed to have crossed paths with her. What a wonderful person she was! I will miss seeing her and talking to her. May she rest in peace.
Message from Larry Durbin
October 11, 2015 9:16 AM

Harriet and I started selling real estate in Woodstock in 1970. We remained good friends ever since. Most agents only last about five years in the real estate business. Harriet was a super achiever and made it much longer. The last property I sold through Harriet finally got an offer. It was low. I wanted to reject it. Harriet gave me a good talking to. I took the offer and sold the property.

My fondest remembrance of my dear friend was when she went to Blackjack School to learn how to win before attending a real estate convention in Las Vegas. She wanted to win at everything she did. She was a fine and gracious lady and a real lady. I will never forget Harriet.
Message from Cindy Sample
October 20, 2015 1:50 PM

Thanks, Larry. You summed up our mother beautifully. She truly was a winner in everything!
Message from Dan and Sharan Dale
September 28, 2015 2:31 PM

Jeff and Family,
When the Lord calls our loved ones home, he leaves a gift of memories in exchange. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dan and Sharan
Message from Jeff Bergstrand
October 5, 2015 9:03 AM

Dan and Sharan,
Many thanks for your kind words and for keeping all of us in your prayers.
Message from Darlene Wesolek and Gladys Sattler
September 26, 2015 12:38 PM

Jeff and Cyndee,
Mom and I send our condolences to you both and your family.
May God be with you all during this time. Our thoughts and
prayers to each of you.
Message from Jeff Bergstrand
October 5, 2015 9:03 AM

Darlene and Gladys,
Many thanks for your condolences and keeping my mom and our family in your prayers.
Message from Dana Fall
September 24, 2015 2:01 PM

I enjoyed the time I had with her here at Holy Cross Village @ND. She was a blessing to us, I so enjoyed her sharing what lousy card players we all are.....haha..she will be missed. I thank her family for being so amazing also.
Message from Jeff Bergstrand
September 24, 2015 5:41 PM

Thank you, Dana. We appreciate so much what you, the staff and the brothers at Schubert Villa did for my mom over the past 6 months. The wonderful and loving care from all of you has meant so much to us during this time. I know she is smiling upon all of you. Thanks so much for your thoughts.
Message from The Baiers
September 23, 2015 8:47 AM

We were fortunate to meet and spend time with Harriet during our time in South Bend. She was a wonderful person. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Message from Jeff Bergstrand
September 24, 2015 5:38 PM

Thank you so much Scott and Michele for your remembrances and condolences. They are deeply appreciated by our whole family and please keep our family and my mom in your prayers.
Message from Marc and Marcia Hardy
September 22, 2015 2:53 PM

Jeff, I am so sorry to hear about your mother's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Marc and Marcia Hardy
Message from Jeff Bergstrand
September 22, 2015 3:24 PM

Marc and Marcia, Many thanks for your thoughts and prayers. Jeff
Message from Kathleen Moehling
September 21, 2015 8:46 PM

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your mother. My daughter and I were in Mishawaka three weeks ago for my grandson's wedding and stopped in for a short visit with Harriet. We had so many laughs with her while exercising at the Senior Center and
I will always be grateful for having known her.
Message from Cindy Sample
September 28, 2015 12:09 AM

Kathleen, my mother was so grateful for your visit. She told me all about it when I arrived the next day. She had so many wonderful memories of you and her other friends at the Senior Center.
Message from Jeff Bergstrand
September 22, 2015 11:03 AM

Kathleen, Thank you for your lovely thoughts and condolences; she very much missed her friends in McHenry over the last 6 months. We will be having an additional memorial service for her in McHenry the morning of October 21 when all our family and her friends there gather. Details will be posted here in October. Thanks for passing on this note. jeff
Message from Crystal Mead
September 19, 2015 12:29 AM

I had the pleasure of getting to know Harriet while taking care of her.She was a wonderful person and was always in a good mood no matter what.She could make your day great even you had a bad one.She made me smile and was very loved by so many.Also her family is wonderful.My condolences to everyone.
Message from Cindy Sample
September 28, 2015 12:07 AM

Crystal, thank you so much for your wonderful care of our mother during the end of her journey. You helped fill her last two months with love and laughter. And you discovered the magic word - pierogi! I'm so grateful for your kindness and friendship.
Message from Jeff Bergstrand
September 22, 2015 11:00 AM

Crystal, Thank you so much for your thoughts and especially thank you for your wonderful and devoted care of my mother during the past two months at Schubert Villa. Our family deeply appreciates all that you did.
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A candle was lit by Crystal Mead on September 19, 2015 12:25 AM
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